She has obviously treated F***b**k as her diary.. but WHY???? To write about her feelings, obviously, people only do that in diary where no other people can read one la... ai yoh... she knew it is open for other people to view, still write?? She has written a lot about being stressed at work, work until what time what time bla bla bla.... Then... I guess she realised that the overwhelming comments might have made her boss look real bad.. so, this how she saved herself.
To me, F***b**k is for updating friends (making the world so much smaller), like spreading the news of getting married, news of someone's salvation? news of church events happening etc...
Really, true feelings, which is not appropriate for public to know, want to write, write in a book called MY DIARY and best is the kind of book with a lock and keep in a secret place. I remember I had a red hello kitty diary that comes with a cute white lock. :) I was in Standard 6, and I write almost everynight before I sleep. I wrote too much.. until 1 day, feeling so insecure (I am just being very honest here), I am afraid that my family members will open up one day and read them! So.. what I did was... I throw that very cute and expensive diary away.. it went into the black garage bag and with some other food waste, I made sure it was tied up and left outside for garbage collection. :) Want to know what was the big secret I don't want people to know? Hehe.. don't laugh at me.. it was.. because in my class, there's a popular girl, many boys like her.. and I was an ugly duckling, no one likes me.. and I felt so unwanted that I photocopied her photo and my photo, put side by side in my diary and asked myself this question "What is the difference between us, am I that ugly compared to her? That unattractive?" Ya... that's it. :P I was innocently insecure. :) Of course, growing up I still questioned.. why some girls are more attractive than others? Why some are really magnets? :) No answer still. But now I do understand that it doesn't mean that when you have many boys that like you, it's a good thing.. because what really matter is.. whether the RIGHT guy likes you. :D I've got that problem settled because... I involved my Daddy in Heaven !! Yeay !! :P
Ok, back to the F***b**k thing hor.. I admit the addiction to F***b**k is very real.. and is happening everywhere, I myself am trying hard not to get addicted too. It is obviously another of devil's tool to control our mind, making us busy on the wrong thing.
God help us, help this generation.. help me... hehe..
Philipians 4:8
Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right.
Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable.
Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.
3 comments:
Hey Joan, thanks for sharing such a real life story about f***b**k. Instead of discussing about the pros and cons about f***b**k. I think we should think about what we had done for causing the outcome?! Unfortunately, human always look at people's fault instead of self introspection. Hope my simple point will enlightened someone's mind.
Hi Jia Qi ! Ya... guess it all arises from the need to gain approval from people. Cannot deny, it is we human's weakest spot, but being aware of it helps striking a balance. ;)
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